To Alip: Change

People do change. Sometimes the change is so small, so subtle that people don't notice. Sometimes the change is gradual and takes years and also goes unnoticed. Only after a revelatory event, or a long-time-no-see then you may hear that "My God, you have CHANGED!!" or "I barely recognized you…". Both those phrases can go either way whether positively or negatively. Sometimes, its just a change in appearance. Other times, the individual herself mutates…
What happens when someone you love changes?? Well, if you love them enough, you’d change with them. If its not worth it, they change, you make allowances for their change and they say your not the person they fell in love with anymore. That's when the divorce attorney gets called in.
All in all, you can say people change. But in my opinion the word change is for things that are less dynamic, like the interior of a room. People…people live. And with every new knowledge and experience the gain, they live on with it. It alters our way of thinking and perceptions. We are dynamic. We live.
On a personal note, there are also people who refuse to change. They deny all knowledge that they think will jeopardize their being and instead try to change the people around them. These people are called blind. And their blindness is self inflicted. They are also idiots, but….Well, my advice: reality may have been put into TV but lets not put the soap operas in reality please…